Thinking about what I’m into in August 2014


The BFF and I. Aren’t we the cutest? And haven’t we been the cutest friends since 2004?

Oh my Lord August was a busy month. I was, quite literally, all over the place (as in all over western Canada). Nevertheless, I’m still managing–albeit a bit later than I’d planned–to link up with the lovely Leigh Kramer for this month’s round of What I’m Into. Because I went in to reading panic mode before I started grad school, and thus read/am reading plenty of books that I need to talk about.

Books I’m Reading

  • The Casual Vacancy – J.K. Rowling: I held off on reading this book for quite a while because, like many others, I was afraid that I would hate it because it wasn’t Harry Potter. Thus far, I am really enjoying this book. It takes a lot more commitment to read because the vocabulary is for adults rather than children, and the pace is pretty slow, but I think it is proof that Rowling really is a great writer.
  • Siege and Storm – Leigh Bardugo: You’ll see that I read the first installment of this trilogy, and I had to go straight to the next book. I love YA in general because it is quick, fun, stress-free type of read, but I obviously love a unique/good series like this one even more. I love the idea of Grisha, and amplifiers, and this is a great book.
  • Speak – Nish Weiseth: Realistically, I should have finished reading this book a long time ago. Unfortunately, I was interrupted by a 2-week trip to western Canada (and didn’t have regular access to the e-book), and thus my e-book has expired. Thank goodness for Goodreads and my obsessive-compulsive tendency to record my reading progress! AKA: I will find this book and finish it ASAP.

Books I’ve Read

  • A Beautiful Mess Happy Handmade Home – Elsie Larson and Emma Chapman: Despite the fact that I don’t really craft or do things myself, I really love keeping tabs on A Beautiful Mess. In particular, I loved the “At Home With” series, because I am mildly obsessed with home tours and mid-century modern design, which this blog has plenty of. So I was beyond stoked to get a copy of this in the mail, even though I may or may not do any of the crafty things it contains. But it is a frigging beautiful coffee table book, and has DIY things of variable skill level, and it also has cocktail recipes. AKA: It is worth owning. :)
  • The Book of Life – Deborah Harkness: I mentioned before that it took me a while to get back into the story, but once I did, I could barely put this book down (I actually got up early for work so I could read the last 40 pages). Many times, I’ve told people that I thought this book would be guilty pleasure reading, but it turned out to be so much better than that (which probably stems from the fact that Harkness is a History professor, and knows her stuff). I could go on and on, but I really loved this series. It is a trilogy that I legitimately think I will re-read in the future because the story of Diana and Matthew was just that good.
  • Shadow and Bone – Leigh Bardugo: Another book that I heard about from Leigh Kramer, whose book recommendations have yet to disappoint me. Finally, a unique setting for a YA novel! Very much loving this series, as I’m sure you’ve already noted because I’m currently reading book number two.
  • Visions – Kelley Armstrong: A dear friend introduced me to Kelley Armstrong a number of months ago, and I am really enjoying her writing. This series is just the right amount of supernatural mixed in with mystery. I had a hard time putting it down at night, and was really thankful to have received it the week before starting my master’s. Also, I may or may not have jumped at the changing sounds of my air conditioner because this book is really suspenseful at times. But I loved it. Kelley Armstrong writes good women, which I really appreciate. And apparently, she does writing workshops at public libraries. #likeaboss

* A note about my reading habits: if you want the super detailed version of what I’m reading, what I’ve read and what I want to read, you can add me on Goodreads, aka: the form of social media made for people like me.

Films I’ve Watched

  • Guardians of the Galaxy: There was so much hype about this movie (*cough* Andrew Stewart *cough*), and I wasn’t particularly interested in the content, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that I really quite liked Guardians of the Galaxy. It is surprisingly appropriate content-wise, is really funny, and is a great summer blockbuster type movie. Definitely worth seeing.
  • The Other Woman: I will watch almost any movie when I’m flying, and this movie is proof of that. It certainly wasn’t good at all, but it did help me stay awake during my flight. In retrospect, I should have just re-watched episodes of House of Cards instead.

Television I’ve Watched

  • Boardwalk Empire, Season 4: I lost interest in this show after the second season, which I blamed on the departure of a particular character. The husband and I have sporadically watched season 3 and 4 over the past year or so, and have just recently picked up watching again because we caught up on all of our other shows. While the TV is good, I realize that there are just too many new characters that I’m supposed to care about but I don’t. All that said, the show only has one season left, which I’ll probably watch, but without a deep love like many other shows.
  • Hannibal, Season 2: Never has a TV show caused me to shout so many inappropriate words, and I mean that in a good way (I think). Despite knowing the general premise of the Hannibal Lecter story, this show continually keeps me guessing. It also keeps me covering my eyes, because it is crazy gruesome, and thus I can’t really recommend it to most people. All that said, it is psychologically fascinating, and I can’t wait until there’s another season!
  • Sleepy Hollow, Season 1: I watched almost all of season 1 of this show when it first came out, but the final few episodes weren’t released until after I’d moved to Zimbabwe. So I forgot about it, and subsequently forgot how much I liked it. Sleepy Hollow is what I wish Supernatural was.


Things I’ve Done

  • After many similar summers in the past, this summer was yet another filled with weddings. The most recent one happened to be that of my long-time BFF Sarah (and I say “long time” in a nearly ten years sort of way). She got married to a dude she’s known longer than me, and all things were beautiful because she is the queen of craft. Also, look how cute (and legitimately re-wearable) my dress is! All thanks to ModCloth.
  • Because of the aforementioned wedding and graduate studies in September, I also left my job as an administrative assistant after almost four years. It is strange to not go back to that historic mansion everyday, but I know it is all for the best.
  • During the week that we were in lower mainland BC for the BFF’s wedding, the husband and I also visited basically every friend who was living in the area. It amounted to a very busy schedule, and thus we did a lot of sleeping and not hanging out with people once we got to our respective home towns in the prairies. I spent some quality time with my Momma, during which she mended so many of my clothes and made me a bunch of curtains. Because she is The Best.

* Full disclosure: I received an advance reader’s copy of Visions, A Beautiful Mess: Happy Handmade Home and Speak , but the above thoughts and opinions are fully my own. Also, there are Amazon Associate links included in this post. If you click through to Amazon, any purchase you make supports this site.

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Thinking about August goals


I place high value on being intentional about things, but also on being realistic and cutting myself some slack. So when I discovered Goals with Grace via The Tiny Twig, I was pretty excited. Easy monthly goals? Yes please.

Goals for July 2014:

  1. Read and review at least two books. This month, reading at least two books was easy, especially because it was finally my turn in the library cue to get Laini Taylor’s latest book. Reviewing forces me to be a lot more intentional when I’m reading because I have to highlight or make notes and generally think harder. Nonetheless, I read and reviewed Tables in the Wilderness by Preston Yancey, and Surprised by Motherhood by Lisa-Jo Baker (which you can find under the “Reviews” tab if you’re curious.)
  2. Write in my journal at least once a week. A big huge NOPE to this one, as I haven’t even written in it yet. This is often what happens to me with journal writing, as I am afraid to return to it because I know I’ll have to sort through my crap. Ha. I have, however, managed to read through the large pile of comics I’d been keeping next to my bed, so perhaps writing before I head to sleep will be a lot more possible.
  3. Complete one non-walking to work physical activity per week. I’m bad at caring about physical fitness, but it is also summer and I don’t have a car, so I end up walking places on the weekends anyway. Plus I’ve (ugh) started doing lunges and squats at home before bed, so consider this goal achieved. And, because my husband is an absolute saint, he helped me paint my bicycle, so I am riding that bad boy everywhere.
  4. Send snail mail to my besties. This one was almost easy, because most of my besties had major events going on in their lives (birthdays, weddings, et cetera). Also, I keep a stash of cards for general/various occasions in a (currently very messy) drawer in our office, so I don’t have to buy something new if I want to send mail.

Goals for August 2014:

  1. Paint the bathroom.
  2. De-rust and paint my bicycle.*
  3. Read and review at least three books.
  4. Write in my journal at least once a week.

* This one is already done, but I did it right at the end of July/beginning of August, which was earlier than I thought it would happen.

A couple of these are the same/similar to last month’s goals, and the other two are totally new (and both happen to be DIY sorts of things). Painting the bathroom isn’t terribly lofty, but will pose a challenge as I’m going to be away from home for two weeks in the middle of the month.

Goals achievement mode: ACTIVATE.

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Thinking about what I’m into in July 2014


Near The Alamo in San Antonio, Texas; inside a bookstore (Half Price Books), as I would.

July was a lot of fun, but the fun went too fast. Plus, I’m really not sure if I am ready to leave my full-time job in my beautiful historical workplace. Every day, I remind myself how nice my office and building are, and I think it is making me a bit nostalgic in advance. Anyway, in spite of July’s fastness, I still managed to (duh) be into a bunch of things. So, as per usual, I am linking up with the lovely Leigh Kramer for this month’s round of What I’m Into.

Books I’m Reading

  • The Book of Life – Deborah Harkness: I’ve talked about the first two books in the series before, but now that I’m on the final book in the trilogy, I am pretty sure I don’t want this to be just a trilogy. Although books that involve vampires and witches are anything but rare, the depth of historical and scientific content makes this book really unique. I’ll admit that recalling the plot of the previous books has been a bit of a challenge, but I’ve managed to get back into the story after a hundred or so pages. This series is a must read!
  • Speak – Nish Weiseth: This is one of many books I’m liable to have on the bookshelves in my imaginary therapy office. Individual narratives are hugely important to me, and thus I am very excited about what Nish has to say about the importance of stories. Loving this book thus far.
  • The Word Exchange – Alena Graedon: I really need to apologize to this book for neglecting it. I’m reading tiny snippets at a time, and it really deserves a solid couple of hours in a coffee shop. Perhaps once I’ve finished up The Book of Life, this book will get the attention it deserves.

Books I’ve Read

  • Dreams of Gods & Monsters – Laini Taylor: This is one of the better and more interesting/unique YA series that I’ve read in the past few years. Although the concept can be a bit weird at times–angels and monsters and a teenage girl resurrecting creatures using pain and teeth–this is what makes it so good. Because it isn’t like every other YA series out there. If you are at all interested in YA fantasy, you should definitely read this trilogy.
  • Surprised By Motherhood – Lisa-Jo Baker: I do plenty of internal complaining about how all of my peers who are parents ‘don’t get me’ (bla bla bla) and my state of non-parent-ness. Reading a book like this, thus, is a small step toward my being less of a jerk about the fact that I don’t have children. In all seriousness though, this is a really honest and beautiful book. I am quite a fan (especially because I recently visited and fell in love with South Africa). You can read my full review here.
  • Tables In The Wilderness – Preston Yancey: I won’t say too much about this here because I’ve already written a full review of this book (which, duh, you can find under the Reviews tab), but it was a good book. Sorry to say that you can’t get it until the end of September!

* A note about my reading habits: if you want the super detailed version of what I’m reading, what I’ve read and what I want to read, you can add me on Goodreads, aka: the form of social media made for people like me.

Films I’ve Watched

  • The Amazing Spider-Man 2: Considering I liked the first installment of this version of Spider-Man much more than I anticipated, it was about time that I watched the second one. And, although I liked it, knowing one of the most important plot points in advance definitely spoiled things for me. Sigh.
  • Burn After Reading: This movie is worth watching even just for Brad Pitt’s character, who is a hilarious personal trainer who often whines like a small child. Coen brothers’ movies are hit and miss for me (most of the misses were the darker, earlier films), but I’m a big fan of this movie. Also, for anybody who has seen this film, the husband surprise changed my desktop background to Brad Pitt’s face at a particularly funny moment of this movie. Laughed until I cried.
  • Captain America: The Winter Soldier: Of all the Marvel universe characters, I have to admit that I am the least interested in Captain America. I did, however, quite enjoy this movie, as I (guilt-free) do almost all movies based upon comic books. Most exciting for me? The post-credits scene. OMG. As an aside to movie people, you are geniuses for coming up with this idea.
  • Godzilla: As bad movies (aka: movies with nominal plot) go, this one was more disappointing than I expected. There wasn’t enough Bryan Cranston for my liking, and I just really don’t have enough background knowledge of prior Godzilla films to appreciate one being made in 2014. If I want to watch a bad movie about fighting giant things, I’m going with Pacific Rim.
  • The Grand Budapest Hotel: Everything is symmetrical. My obsessive-compulsive self is very pleased. I generally don’t love Wes Anderson films as much as my spouse does, but I quite liked this one. A bit of a ‘whodunnit’ sort of movie, which I appreciate.


Music I’ve Listened To

  • Two of my friends are in a band called Sea Change (in the somewhat grainy picture above), and they released their first EP in the middle of July. And oh my goodness, are they talented dudes. They also had so many people come to their CD release that the venue had to turn people away.

Television I’ve Watched

  • Marvel’s Agents Of SHIELD, Season 1: I started watching this show when it was first released last fall because I am a devoted fan of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and other Whedon things. Unfortunately, the first half of the season was fairly mediocre. However, upon reaching episode 12 or 13, this show really picked up. I binge watched the last 6 or 7 episodes in a matter of days because I was so enthralled/so angry/so feelings about the whole thing. All that said, if you like Joss Whedon, you should bear through the first half of this show to experience the joy of the last half. Can’t wait for season 2!
  • Doctor Who, Series 1: To be clear, I am watching the series with Christopher Eccleston as the Doctor. I’m a noob, and thus was way confused when everyone asked me where I was starting. Don’t you just start at the beginning? Oh wait. Time is wibbly-wobbly. Of the handful of episodes I’ve watched thus far, I am desperately clinging to the hope of the show being better because–judge me if you must–this first series is pretty terrible. Like, really terrible. I will admit that I like Christopher Eccleston as the Doctor, but that’s about it.
  • Fargo, Season 1: The husband started watching this show before I did so I did some rapid catching up while traveling to and from Texas. Once I hit episode 6, I completely and utterly lost it. Cue pirate lady vocabulary primarily composed of words that start with “s” and “f”. And this is coming from someone who watches shows like Game of Thrones and The Walking Dead. The Coen brothers are excellent at writing bad guys, and this show is no exception. Also, I’m feeling like a genius for discovering some clever anagrams.


Lest anyone was concerned that I’d learned to be an adult and make a normal face,
please refer to the above photo (from Vedrana’s wedding) for your general wrongness. 

Things I’ve Done

  • Went to Texas for wedding shenanigans: Once upon a time, I worked at a bookstore, and I met many a friend there. Much to my surprise, I am still friends with a handful of those people years later… one of whom became my old school pen pal upon her moving to Texas. Vedrana (pronunciation is “veh-dreh-nah” ish, for those of you who are not from Eastern Europe) got married on July 19th, so I flew to San Antonio for a whirlwind weekend of bridesladying. It was super fun–especially because the rest of the bridesmaids are way cool people, but I am an old lady and am thus still tired.

* Full disclosure: I received an advance reader’s copy of The Word Exchange, Tables in the Wilderness, Speak and Surprised by Motherhood, but the above thoughts and opinions are fully my own. Also, there are Amazon Associate links included in this post. If you click through to Amazon, any purchase you make supports this site.

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Surprised by Motherhood – Lisa-Jo Baker


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Although I have always believed (at least to some degree) that someday I will be a mother, I am in the camp of married adults who is not currently defined as ‘parent’. And I do a lot of work to use “if” rather than “when” to describe any hypothetical offspring, largely because I want to model that behaviour for other people so they can perhaps put the same into practice. Because sometimes the lack of children is a really painful thing for people, and I don’t want to go around (unintentionally) wielding my words like a sword.

All of that said, perhaps it then strikes you as strange that I would read a book about motherhood, especially because, for the time being, ‘mother’ is one of the last facets I want to add to my identity. I, however, am someone who does a lot (aka: most) of my learning and understanding by reading books. Thus, if I am to even consider mothering at some point in my life, reading about it (far) in advance is a natural Christie practice.

A book like Lisa-Jo’s is exactly the kind of ‘parenting’ book that I was looking for: it is in no way a manual of ‘to do’s to be The Best Parent, but rather speaks honestly and with love about what it is like to become a parent… even if you weren’t sure that you wanted to. And I’m pretty sure this is the sort of parenting book I’d want to read upon finding out I was going to have a child, or even once I had children of my own. Surprised by Motherhood is gentle but also raw–it doesn’t shy away from the hard truth of real life. (Which is, not surprisingly, one of my favourite qualities of a book.)

I’m certain this is a book that I will come back to if my husband and I choose to be parents. Lisa-Jo speaks frankly about her challenges as a mother, reminding us that parents are human beings too; they get angry and tired and they don’t know what they’re doing just like the rest of us. Surprised by Motherhood would also be a great resource for any mothers (or fathers) who have a less straightforward understanding of ‘home’, or for anyone with anxiety about parenting in light of their own relationship with their parent(s).

In short, this is a great motherhood-in-progress memoir that I highly recommend. Moms everywhere (and Moms of young children especially) would do well to pick up a copy of this book ASAP!

* Full disclosure: I received an advance reader’s copy of Surprised by Motherhood, but the above thoughts and opinions are fully my own.

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Thinking about faith and feminism


Despite my commitment to reclaiming complex labels, I still find it hard to publish my thoughts about faith and feminism. But hey, a bunch of really rad humans decided to do an internet flash mob of sorts to have this really important discussion, so I’m throwing in my five cents to #FaithFeminisms. (Can’t be two cents; Canada doesn’t use pennies anymore.)

Although I find articulating my Christian theology to be somewhat anxiety-inducing, there are a few things of which I am intellectually and emotionally certain:

  • God, a divine and thus humanly unfathomable being, created the universe.
  • God is inherently loving.
  • Every person is made in the image of God.

Knowing (and feeling) those things, then, is the basis upon which I operate my life. Because I identify as a Christian; a follower of the life of Jesus Christ.

I’m going to go right ahead and name/claim that many people have been hurt by many Christians, supposedly doing things in the name of Jesus Christ. But, because I also believe in the Trinity (God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit), I believe that Jesus was sent to earth as the human embodiment of love, and things done in the name of Jesus that aren’t loving aren’t Jesus.

And you know what is particularly unloving? Patriarchy.

Although there are plenty of chunks of the Bible (namely in the Old Testament) that would lead you to believe that men are The Most Important and women don’t matter much, I believe that humanity now has the privilege of operating under something called the new covenant. That we aren’t bound by the pain and the rules of the past, but that–because of Jesus–we are free in and to love. Free indeed.

Perhaps it is a bold statement to make, but I think it is fairly simple and obvious: patriarchy (or any other movement that gives a certain group of humans more power and more value than others) does not fall within God’s design for the universe. Because if we are all imago dei, none of us is anything less than that. We are all equally loved by God, regardless of our socioeconomic status, our skin colour, our biological sex.

I 100% believe that the God of the universe is a feminist, and thus I am called to feminism. Because in spite of all our foolish human behaviours, there is no person who has any less value than any other person. Ever. Regardless of who you are, what you’ve done, or what you will do, the God of the universe loves you equally and abundantly.

There are plenty of Christians who aren’t feminists, and plenty of feminists who aren’t Christians, but I have a real hard time separating the two things. And I think that is a good way to operate, as both my Christianity and my feminism are hugely important to the way that I treat others.

How do you work out the mess of living an intersectional life? I’d love to hear about it, regardless of whether or not those intersections involve faith or feminism. 

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